Category: Musings

A deeper dive into the why behind how we communicate. Let’s explore the thoughts, theories, and quiet realizations that shape being more intentional with the ways we communicate. We only begin to touch on these points during Cool, Comms, Collected workshops. These posts peel back the layers of what it means to listen deeply, express authentically, and connect across differences. It’s part reflection, part exploration—a space to pause, wonder, and consider how everyday interactions can shape not only our relationships, but our shared understanding of the world.

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Amusing vs. Musing: Choosing the Future We Create

When you imagine the future, do you see it as amusing or musing? The difference may sound small, but it carries profound implications for how we live—and how society evolves. An amusing future promises lightheartedness, entertainment, and distraction. It is fueled by instant gratification, short-form media, and the pursuit of what makes us laugh or smile in the moment. While joy has an important place, … Continue reading Amusing vs. Musing: Choosing the Future We Create

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Author John W. Howell and the Journey of Storytelling

A highlight of local author John W. Howell, who shared his creative journey as a featured guest a 3Cs storytelling workshop. After a long business career, John reinvented himself as a writer, publishing eight novels. During the workshop, he discussed how storytelling follows the Hero’s Journey—a model that mirrors our own lives and personal growth. His message reminded everyone that storytelling isn’t just about fiction—it’s about finding meaning, connection, and self-understanding in everyday life. Continue reading Author John W. Howell and the Journey of Storytelling

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Why Human Connection Matters—and How to Strengthen It

In a world that’s more connected than ever through technology, many people report feeling isolated, misunderstood, or unheard. What we’re missing isn’t the ability to communicate, but the ability to truly connect. At its core, human connection is the lifeblood of meaningful relationships, resilient communities, and mental well-being—and it begins with how we listen, respond, and relate to one another. Why Human Connection Matters Human … Continue reading Why Human Connection Matters—and How to Strengthen It

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Observing Your Thoughts

You are not your thoughts. You have thoughts, yes—but you can also watch them rise and fall, come and go, like clouds passing across a sky. Effective communicators understand this because being able to observe your thoughts allows you to regulate your emotions, practice active listening, and respond thoughtfully rather than react impulsively. What Does It Mean to Observe Your Thoughts? Observing your thoughts means … Continue reading Observing Your Thoughts

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You Hear with Your Ears, but You Listen with Your Brain

We live in a noisy world. From buzzing phones to constant conversations, we hear all the time—but truly listening requires much more than just functioning ears. The difference between hearing and listening often comes down to whether you’re practicing active or passive listening. While both involve receiving information, only one truly supports connection, understanding, and meaningful communication. Passive Listening: Just Going Through the Motions Passive … Continue reading You Hear with Your Ears, but You Listen with Your Brain

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Awareness & Intentionality

Communication is more than just exchanging words—it’s the foundation of connection, collaboration, and understanding. Yet, many of us move through conversations on autopilot, unaware of the impact our tone, body language, or choice of words may have on others. Bringing awareness and intentionality to how we communicate helps build stronger relationships, reduce conflict, and create more meaningful interactions. Being intentional in your communication means choosing … Continue reading Awareness & Intentionality

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